Why Women Are Afraid Of Men
Article By Lisa Smuthers | Editor
One of the biggest setback for men in courting women is the fact that women are conditioned to be afraid of men. We are not talking about heart thumping fear that will send her running like a mad woman, but rather fear of men with ill intentions that will lead to her being reluctant to give you her phone number.
The situation are made worse by a small number of men who are rapists or killers, although women do not usually suspects to this degree unless there is a valid reason for her to think so. So if you think that you can erase her fears by telling her that you’re no rapist, think again. Logically, you do not tell a person that unless you suspect they have a good reason for thinking that of you. Hence, telling her that will instantly trigger a red flag or the thought of her parents nagging at her about how men can be full of deceit and contempt.
While most women want to be seduced by men, it is hard to work around the beliefs that she has been conditioned to have since young. Some common warnings they always hear are how men can be afraid of commitment, how they will dump women after sex or cheat on her emotionally. Hence, the first barrier for any men looking to seduce women is to win her trust.
Fortunately there are two sides to a coin, and you can harness womens’ natural instinct to nurture and to accept challenges to your advantage. It is a known fact that women secretly wish they can tame a seductive man to be loyal to her, because she is just too special and irresistable. It is also because of this trait that women love to try to tame gay men and turn them straight with their charm.
Instead of trying to seduce her, try to look for a way to make her want to seduce you. The better you understand women, the more you know how to work with them. Be a challenge for her to overcome and she will make it a point for you to be hers.
Anyway you look at it, this is a much better way that doing things the man way. Most men who are clueless about women will use clear ways of telling her that they’re no rapist instead of making her feel so. In the end, they resent the womens’ response and try to make them feel sorry about it. Looking at this from a female perspective will give men some clues on how to disarm a women and set her on fire.