Quick Ways To Win Women’s Trust
Article By Lisa Smuthers | Editor
With women, getting in a relationship with them is easy one you’ve win their trust. Unlike men, women need to feel secure and safe before they let you in their world and it is up to you to establish this connection. As young girls, they are always told to be careful of men and strangers and this cautiousness stay with them even after they became adults.
Basically, the fundamentals of earning her trust is to treat her in a way that you meant no harm, both physically and mentally. It extend beyond being gentle in your actions as she need to know how you think too to know whether you’ll be mean to her and so on.
Never resort to pressuring a woman to agree to go on a date with you. She will either run away or give you a fake number to save herself. The funny thing is, trust can easily be established when there is a common problem. For example, if you are stuck in the elevator with a woman, she’ll naturally be depending on you to get assistance to get both of you out. A connection and trust that will otherwise take ages to build is instantly established in an awkward situation like this.
Since it is not very smart to have attractive women get stuck in an elevator with you, relying on your creativity is the only way to do this. It truly helps that you start practicing this with strangers you meet anywhere, regardless of who they are. Look for a common problem that applies to both of you to start a conversation and take it from there. Overtime, this will be a second nature to you.
Women dig men who are able to express themselves emotionally. While they also like to talk about their emotions, you can’t expect them to spill their feelings to a stranger like you. Therefore, you have to be the one to talk about your feelings pertaining to a problem that you both have, and hope that she will add her input about it.
For example, if you are in a party, you can lament about things like how you have overdressed for the occasion and how you wish to take a cigarette break. If you notice that she is not exactly comfortable in her shoes, express how you wish that you’ve worn your shoes more before wearing them to parties like this.
By getting in at the same platform as her, she will instantly identify with your problem. If her shoes is killing her, it may even be the main thing that goes on in her mind all night. So you can imagine the instant trust that you set to gain by talking about the same problem. You may even suggest that you both take a seat somewhere or head out for a smoke to get to know her better.
Besides talking, you can reinforce the trust with a small gesture such as a touch on the back or arm to indicate care and protection. Women have been genetically built to yearn protection so giving it to her is an assurance that you are someone that could be trusted.