How to Handle Physical Contact With A Woman
Article By Tiffany Taylor Author of the Guy Gets Girl Ebook
Are you aware that touching and other forms of physical contact is a crucial component when it comes to seducing a woman. You will not be able to successfully pick-up a woman unless there she is comfortable with you touching her. If you don’t have that then it will be almost impossible to move on to the next step of kissing her or sleeping with her. There needs to be a good amount of touching intially. For instance she may put her hand on your knee or maybe you put your arm around her waist and pull her in closer to you – whatever form the touching takes place it much be there for you to reach you end goal of seduction. This presents a problem for most men: How do they start the ball rolling when it comes to getting physically close to a woman without making her freaked out or scared?
Many men will often just rush in but that will usually only end up with the girl feeling scared, uncomfortable and in the worst case scenario will make her feel a little violated. Other men will hold back on any form of physical contact with a woman incase they do end up putting the girl off. This will many time though end up sending out the wrong message, telling the girl that the guy isn’t interested in her or that he is simply too timid to show her that he is interested. Both these scenarios are bad when it comes to trying to impress a woman. So what is the solution?
Well there are a few rules that you should follow. these rules conform to the boundaries many women have so that they will be comfortable with you when you do touch them but at the same time they will show the woman that you confident and not afraid to show the woman that you are interested in them.
1. A lot of men think that any kind of touching when you first meet a girl is a big no-no. This isn’t true. It is important to form a positive, strong impression when you first introduce yourself to a girl. As you start to chat with the lady you should gently and casually touch the outside of her right arm while you are expressing something verbally. The outside area of a womans arm is not an intimate area so it won;t feel strange to them if you touch them there but it will giuve them a big signal that you are comfortable with who you are and socially adept. Don’t be afraid to give this a try. You will notice girls responding.
2. Once you have initiated conversation with a woman, or if you find yourself chatting with a woman you are becoming attracted to then it is important to remember to keep up physical contact. This help maintain the bond and connection you have created already and keeps helping build it further so that sexual attraction develops. One example of good physical contact for instance is if a girl doesn’t know where the bar or bathroom is you could place your hand on her shoulder and bring her closer to you as you turn both your bodies in the right direction then point her in the right direction.
3. The last tip is to always remember to close a conversation with a girl with some form of contact. So for example after you have gotten a girl number or arranged to see each other again then give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and kiss. A lot of men assume that the hard work is over once they have a telephone number of arranged to meet again but if you make physical contact with her before you depart then you ensure she remembers you and will be dying to see you again.